Untame Your Flame

"And then my soul went, Oh there you are, I've been looking for you"

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Staring at him, all I could think was ‘I KNOW you, at the deepest depths of my being I know you and I’ve been looking for you my whole life. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?!'

What I recognized was THAT’S MY DIVINE ALIGNMENT, he IS me, that's my consciousness expressing itself in a male body. Which was closely followed in my mind by, ‘what do I need to do and who do I need to become (or unbecome as the case may be) to realign with that'. I am supposed to BE that!

At this point I felt so separate from myself or disconnected from part of myself, desperately yearning for something I couldn’t put my finger on. I wanted connection to that missing piece so badly. I felt whole next to him and then when he wasn't physically there I felt a gaping hole

Initially I tried to be with him, to attach to him, although I didn't truly want that, or not in a codependent way. I wanted the empowered version of that if anything. Also, something felt wrong within me and how I was showing up, like I wasn't externally being who I knew myself to be on the inside. I didn’t really know for sure what I was wrong or how to get what I was looking for, with him or within self either though

I didn't know how to engage with my/ the masculine at a physical level, I felt a bit suppressed and child like in the way I was trying to connect. There was somewhat of a father/daughter energetic experience playing out but with MY counterpart.

Secondly, I wasn't truly physically or emotionally open to him even though I desired to be. I didn't want attachment but it felt like codependent relating was all I knew. I couldn't or didn't know how to healthily connect with that energy and my connection to this energy within me also felt stunted, stuck in the past and divorced from the rest of me

There was disconnection and I felt like there were missing pieces of me...

I was frustrated, confused and felt fragmented

The man/masculine energy that I wanted wasn't available to me and/or wasn't fully connecting with me. It also felt toxic at times and my experience of the connection and exchanges with him were constantly shifting, leaving me feeling uncertain whether I was coming or going with him

Also, generally speaking, I was attracting one type of man but desiring and feeling an authentic pull to another. There was partial but not full engagement with either. WHY? WHY COULDN'T I HAVE IT ALL IN THE ONE PERSON?!

Did I want a conventional relationship with him? I thought I did but I was also aware that what I was looking for was deeper than this...

On reflection, I now recognize, that had I received a conventional relationship at this point, it wouldn't have gotten me what I actually primarily desired and instead he would've just become a substitute for the void and disconnection within myself

Are you experiencing or have you experienced something like this? Are you feeling the same frustration and confusion I was? You may need to HEAL YOUR TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIP...

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What is your TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIP?

In my understanding and soul remembrance, your Twin Flame is basically your soul energy (NOT primarily a particular person!). Your true inner energetic essence which is made up of polarized energy of masculine and feminine. The relationship or lack thereof and exchange between these within the self ripples out and either creates a beautiful reality or wrecks havoc on your world.

When we feel or perceive something is wrong in our reality, we often try to, not necessarily intentionally, manipulate the other person or manipulate external circumstances. But what if the problem was YOU? or at least influenced by you?

What if the external problem would disappear or what you perceive would morph before your eyes if you looked within and tended to the inner environment contributing to these uncomfortable exchanges and producing this projected reality rather than trying to fix the external?

'The Relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have'

What if instead of trying to change the reflection in the mirror you addressed and adjusted the source of the reflection? YOU ;)

What if what you were experiencing was coming FROM YOU as much as happening TO YOU?

What if this person you so desperately want to connect with at a physical level, in truth, also wants to connect with you but is stuck mirroring out your relationship with self and can't choose you even if they want to?

What if the toxic exchange is happening within yourself and the other person or people are just playing a role to show you that so you can see it and heal it? Like actors on the stage of your life

What if things are not the way they seem?

What if the power to change them lies in YOUR hands...

You want an AUTHENTIC PHYSICAL TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIP but what you need is your AUTHENTIC SELF

And that's what I am here to help you with ;)

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My name is Cheryl Louise (spirit name Akasha, ah-kaa-shuh). I am the Creative Director of Untame Your Flame. I am a Sacred Union guide, an Interdimensional Translator, Activator of Recalibration with the Divine Spark Within, Truth Seeker and Speaker and a Portal for Energy Transmutation.

I am here to assist you in healing your TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIP

I am here to help you remember, awaken and integrate those lost aspects of self. Help you understand and resolve challenging dynamics within the self, your romantic relationships, with family and around you with other soul connections in your reality. Assist you in translating what is happening at a higher spiritual level or within the self that is then creating or influencing what is playing out at a physical body/physical realm level. Assist you in freeing yourself from the binds of the past. Be the bridge between where you are now and who you know yourself to be on the inside. Help you come back into harmony and energetic balance within self and return to your original state of being before all the trauma, distortion, conditioning and energetic baggage. Wipe the slate clean and restore you to your original form

Some of the themes that often come up in sessions are childhood trauma, parental struggles(past and present), unresolved past romantic relationships, challenges in current relationships both romantic and platonic, higher self embodiment, energetic imbalance, reconciliation of the fragmented self, your shadow or unintegrated shadow, challenges with being your authentic self, speaking your truth and being fully self expressed, suppression of or rejection of self, self editing and energetic/physical attachment and detachment, to name a few...

If this sounds like what you are looking for, pop into the ‘book a session’ tab and send me an email and we’ll get you scheduled in 😊 I would love you help you resolve them and become who you were in the first place again!

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'It started with a divine spark and became a blazing flame'

Much Love, Cheryl Louise x

p.s if you are not ready for honesty, I’m not your person 😉